Author:
Rachel Held Evans
One-sentence
summary: A year-long experiment in following biblical passages literally leads to humor and insight on what it means to be a woman of valor.
B.A.D.
Girls Book Rating: 7
Our
favorite thing about it:
We
loved the reclaiming of Proverbs 31 summed up in the phrase “eshet chayil.”
Our
least favorite thing about it: That so much
of the “biblical womanhood” experiment was probably cut from the final draft of
the book…we expected more details of the experience and felt that it was
glossed over in areas.
Main
Topics of Discussion:
Womanhood, Biblical, Justice, Equality, Marriage, the Bible, patriarchy
Our
favorite quote: “The woman described in Proverbs 31 is not some
ideal that exists out there; she is present in each one of us when we do even
the smallest things with valor.” (p.90)
And another because I couldn’t choose between the
two:
“We grow so attached to our rules that they love
outlive their purpose, and the next thing we know, we’re adding leaves to our
tables and cutting the ends off our roast. We cling to the letter because the
spirit is so much harder to master.” (p.140)
Notes:
We all really liked this book
and the discussion it generated at our meeting. We thought it was an
interesting, easy, and humorous read. We loved that the author showed us photos
of her experience to give us a visual glimpse of her “biblical womanhood”
experiment. However, we had different expectations about the experiment than
what was actually presented in the book.
All of us are familiar with Rachel and some of us
have read her other book (Evolving in Monkey Town), so we knew where she was
coming from with the premise. But we just expected to get a little more details
about her experiences with “biblical womanhood” as well as for her to be
immersed in them a little more. Some lasted the whole year (like her not
cutting her hair), but some were only done for a few days (like the mail-order
baby) or minutes. Surely some of the details of the experiment were cut from
the final draft by editors (and probably rightly so), and we’re sure that a
robotic baby would be cost-prohibitive to keep for much longer than 3 days. So,
we understand the limitations of the experiment, but we couldn’t help but think
something was missing there.
And one thing that was surprising to the couple of
us that follow Rachel’s blog was that we didn’t really get a lot of new
information that we had not already heard from her on her blog. We love the
information and the insightful way it is presented, but for a couple of us,
there wasn’t as much new information as we expected.
That being said, we all really enjoyed Rachel’s
commentary on women’s roles in church, marriage, society, and other
relationships. We appreciated her unpacking and detailed research of the
Proverbs 31 passage as well as the Timothy “silence” passages used to define
women’s roles. We were touched by the acknowledgment of the “texts of terror”
as well as Rachel’s difficulty with certain Biblical texts…which mirror our own
feelings. The two things we took away above all else was the reclaiming of the
Proverbs 31 text for women of valor and Rachel’s assertion at the end of her
book that women are the solution.
Memorable
Meeting Moments: We all wore
our new Hunger Games t-shirts courtesy of Dara and Lindsay’s Christmas gifts.
And Rachel opened her birthday books and cards.
What
We Ate: Pulled
Chicken Tacos, Mexican Rice, and Sopapilla Cheesecake
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